Have you ever thought about the link between technology and your relationship? It goes deeper than you may think. While some media outlets may argue that tech can destroy relationships, I think the opposite. In fact, in many ways, technology has helped people connect with others on a meaningful level, more than ever before. Here’s how it could actually improve your relationship.
Easier To Make Plans
With texting and messaging apps, you can make plans in a matter of minutes. Smartphones let you conveniently send a quick text to your significant other while you’re in line at the supermarket or getting your hair done. And if you both happen to be free at the same time? You can meet up and grab dinner. Meanwhile, if your communication was limited to regular (or even scheduled) phone calls, these kind of spontaneous plans might not happen. So, it’s not necessarily true that people who spend more time online are complete shut-ins.
Stay Connected When Distance Separates You
Maybe you have to attend a family reunion over the weekend, or your significant other has to embark on a week-long business trip. The truth is, when it comes to technology and your relationship, you can stay connected whenever you want. Talking to each other throughout the day over text can make you both feel like you’re right there beside each other. So, handling any kind of long distance situation becomes much easier.
Better Communication Skills
Like everything else, technology is what you make of it. And so is social media. Because it’s meant to bring people together, you can use it to improve your communication skills with your partner. Do you feel like you withdraw too much from them at times? You can use these tools at your fingertips to make an effort to text your SO more often. This first step can create better communication habits.
Keep Track Of Important Dates
No one wants to be that guy who forgot their anniversary with their partner. If you’re one of those people who simply can’t keep track of dates, then the calendar app on your smartphone is your best friend. You can use it to remind you about your SO’s birthday, as well as other plans you have in the future. This way, you’ll never have to disappoint your partner by forgetting an important holiday or planned trip.