You should think about the connection between technology and your relationship.

Ways Technology Could Improve Your Relationship

Have you ever thought about the link between technology and your relationship? It goes deeper than you may think. While some media outlets may argue that tech can destroy relationships, I think the opposite. In fact, in many ways, technology has helped people connect with others on a meaningful level, more than ever before. Here’s how it could actually improve your relationship.

Easier To Make Plans

With texting and messaging apps, you can make plans in a matter of minutes. Smartphones let you conveniently send a quick text to your significant other while you’re in line at the supermarket or getting your hair done. And if you both happen to be free at the same time? You can meet up and grab dinner. Meanwhile, if your communication was limited to regular (or even scheduled) phone calls, these kind of spontaneous plans might not happen. So, it’s not necessarily true that people who spend more time online are complete shut-ins.

Stay Connected When Distance Separates You

Maybe you have to attend a family reunion over the weekend, or your significant other has to embark on a week-long business trip. The truth is, when it comes to technology and your relationship, you can stay connected whenever you want. Talking to each other throughout the day over text can make you both feel like you’re right there beside each other. So, handling any kind of long distance situation becomes much easier.

Better Communication Skills

Like everything else, technology is what you make of it. And so is social media. Because it’s meant to bring people together, you can use it to improve your communication skills with your partner. Do you feel like you withdraw too much from them at times? You can use these tools at your fingertips to make an effort to text your SO more often. This first step can create better communication habits.

Keep Track Of Important Dates

A digital calendar reminds you of important dates.

Use a digital calendar to stay on top of important dates.

No one wants to be that guy who forgot their anniversary with their partner. If you’re one of those people who simply can’t keep track of dates, then the calendar app on your smartphone is your best friend. You can use it to remind you about your SO’s birthday, as well as other plans you have in the future. This way, you’ll never have to disappoint your partner by forgetting an important holiday or planned trip.

We're more dependent on technology than ever.

How We’ve Become Too Dependent On Technology

As you may know, I purchased my first smartphone about ten years ago. I never could have predicted how much I’d depend on it each day. Recently, I came across an interesting article about how Gossip Girl seemed to predict how we now interact with technology and social media. That was one of my favorite shows when I was in middle and high school. What was so unique about it at the time was how the Internet pretty much invaded the personal lives of the main characters. Their secrets and relationships would be revealed on Gossip Girl’s blog throughout the series. Nowadays, this doesn’t seem so scandalous because of how connected we are to the Internet and each other. So, how have we become more dependent on technology over the years?

We Need To Be Connected 24/7

Do you remember what it’s like to hear complete silence and read a book without any distracting notifications? I couldn’t until I started making a conscious effort to turn my phone off. Like many other people, I feel the need to be connected to everyone 24/7. Rarely do I put my phone on silence, because what if I don’t answer that text or email right away? It’s hard to disconnect when people expect us to get back to them at all times. I can’t even imagine what it’d be like to go camping for several days without any reception.

Shopping Addictions Are More Common

Shopping addictions are much more real now.

The Internet has made shopping addictions much more common.

Shopping addictions aren’t new – just look at Mrs. Lincoln back in the 1800’s. The difference is that we now have devices that let us make purchases in a matter of minutes. We can buy virtually anything in just a few clicks. Plus, when you aren’t paying in cold, hard cash, it’s a little more difficult to grasp just how much you’re spending. Shopping addictions are a very real problem that have made us even more dependent on technology.

We Have Major FOMO

In one of my favorite episodes of Broad City, “Hashtag FOMO,” Abbi and Ilana spend a night in search of the perfect party because they don’t want to miss out on something phenomenal. I think a lot of us can relate to this mindset – we might enjoy what we’re doing, but what if there’s something else out there that’s even better? FOMO (fear of missing out) becomes second-nature when we’re all constantly seeing how other people live their lives.

Now that we know we’re dependent on technology, we need to figure out what to do about it. Personally, I try to turn my phone off at least an hour before I go to sleep. This lets me decompress from my day and leaves me time for my other hobbies, like reading. Find out what works for you!

Use these methods of technology to find out the truth about your cheating boyfriend.

How to Use Technology to Catch a Cheating Boyfriend

It’s hard to keep secrets with smartphones. They hold so much personal information about us, our lives, and our relationships with other people. Yet, we take them out with us all the time and often leave them unsecured. A lot of us don’t even use a passcode. All of this makes it easy to find out if you have a cheating boyfriend. You might remember a past blog post where I wrote about how I read my unfaithful, ex-boyfriend’s texts. This time, I want to discuss other ways you can use technology to see if your man is cheating on you.


Check His Browser History

By now, if they’re up to no good, most people know to regularly clear their browser history or use incognito mode. However, some still haven’t learned this important lesson. If you suspect something, it’s worth your time to take a look at your boyfriend’s browser history. It only takes a few minutes to check his cell phone, tablet, and/or laptop. If his search history looks normal, you probably don’t have anything to worry about.

Set Up a Hidden Camera or Recorder

This method will take a little more sneaking around, but it can be done. Installing a hidden camera in your boyfriend’s bedroom is a surefire way to find out if he’s been bringing anyone else home. In addition, you can place a discreet voice recorder in his car any conversations he has with other passengers.

Sign Up for Dating Apps

The easiest way to see if your boyfriend has an account on a dating site is by spying on his phone. But, if you can’t do that, then you’ll have to find out the old-fashioned way. Download all of the popular dating apps, such as Tinder, OkCupid, and Match, and start looking through potential matches. If you see his profile come up, then you know you have a cheating boyfriend.

Look Through His Emails

Certain emails can let you know what your boyfriend has been doing behind your back.

Most emails are junk mail, but you might find something that reveals what your boyfriend’s been up to.

It can take a little while to weed through all the daily promotional and spam emails. Looking through your boyfriend’s emails, though, could reveal some useful information. Many banks send monthly statements via email to reduce wasting paper. There are also some retailers send their receipts by email now, too. You might even find an email about a secret phone line you didn’t know he had.

I hope you’ll be able to discover if you have a cheating boyfriend or not with these methods. Although new technology has made it easier to spy on what people are doing, it’s also a convenient way to meet new people. Should your relationship come to an end, consider online dating in the future. It has its own dangers and risks, but you might be able to find a faithful partner who makes you happy.

Android Oreo will support apps that can spy on texts.

What to Expect from Android Oreo

The news of Android Oreo’s release is buzzing around the Internet. Like every other version of the Android operating system, the newest one is named after a sweet snack. Some phones, such as the Pixel and the Nexus, have already received this update or will be getting it pretty soon. For other devices, there’s a wait that could be over half a year. Everything depends on the phone manufacturer and model. Not only will Oreo be easy to use, but it will still support apps that can spy on texts. You’ll find it to be the most user-friendly iteration of Android OS yet.

Longer Battery Life

While smartphones are a great modern convenience, it’s extremely frustrating when they run out of battery. Especially when you’re nowhere near a charger. Android Oreo should slow down this process. The system has streamlined programs that run in the background, so you’ll enjoy a longer battery life.

A New Set of Emojis

If you’re looking to spy on texts, emojis are the most telling sign of a message’s intent. With the release of Android Oreo, Google has redesigned its emojis. They now look more like traditional smiley faces instead of the former, blob-like characters. This change makes it easier to illustrate your own reactions and better understand your friends’.

Blue Light Filter

Blue light can affect your sleeping habits.

The blue light from your phone can disrupt your sleep.

This new change to the Android OS actually might improve your sleeping habits. Numerous studies have been conducted to examine how blue light can affect people’s moods and disrupt their circadian rhythms. Oreo’s new “Night Light” feature allows you to alter the intensity of the blue light emitting from your phone. In addition, it’ll automatically activate at sunset.

Smart Text Features

Copying and pasting text on a computer is easy, but it’s not as simple of a task on a smartphone. Fortunately, Google has implemented “smart text” into the newest Android release. It’ll automatically recognize addresses, phone numbers, and more so you can copy and paste them accordingly. Facebook’s Messenger app has had this feature for quite some time, and it’s great to see the Android OS catch up.

Less Clutter from Notifications

If you’re like me, then you probably get stressed out when you come back to your phone and see tons of notifications clogging up the lock screen. Oreo eliminates some of that clutter by grouping notifications from the same app together with dots. This allows you to view all of your notifications in a simple, organized layout.

While you’re gearing up for this exciting smartphone release, be sure to read up on how you can spy on texts. You’ll be ready to access everything you need with Android’s new update.

Don't neglect looking up crime reports for your online date.

The Dangers of Online Dating

If you just became single, it can be scary trying to navigate the waters of dating again. It might feel like so much has changed since the last time you were looking to mingle. With the popularity of online dating, it’s like there’s a whole new set of rules now. What you may not know about online dating, though, is the dangers that can come with it. You don’t know if the person on the other side of the screen has crime reports or not. That’s why you should find out as much information about them as possible and be aware of the risks of online dating.

Romance Scams

There are some nasty people out there who want to play with other people’s emotions so they can steal their money. These scammers will create a fake persona and, after earning your trust and love, they’ll start asking you for money. This will usually be for an emergency, medical crisis, or some other fake story that they’ve created. If their life story and circumstances seem a little too farfetched, it’s probably because they are.

Convicted Criminals

Even if a person is telling the truth about their identity, they could still be keeping some crucial secrets from you. When you meet someone online, you often don’t have any mutual friends that can vouch for that person’s character. That’s why it’s so important to look up their crime reports. Before you get too involved, find out if your potential romantic partner has been convicted of any crimes. You may be shocked by what you learn about them.

Sociopaths, Narcissists, and Liars

Unfortunately, dating websites tend to attract sociopaths and other manipulators. These people will turn up the charm, usually by using a technique called love bombing, so they can convince their partner to bend to their whims. In addition, there’s the possibility that someone you’re talking to could still be married. Besides just looking up their crime reports, you should also do some research on their marital status to find out if they’re telling the truth.

How You Can Stay Safe on Dating Websites

Stay safe by meeting dates in public places.

It’s always a good idea to meet new people in a public place.

The most important thing you can do is to refrain from sharing personal information. When you’re getting to know someone and you sense a connection, it can be hard to hold back. But if the relationship moves too fast, you might miss some important warning signs and red flags. If you agree to meet any of your dates in person, make sure to do it in a public place for your own protection. And don’t forget to trust your gut instinct. If you’re getting a bad feeling about somebody, you’re probably right.

Are you already in a relationship? If you suspect that your boyfriend may be cheating, you should take a look at my previous article on how to read his text messages.

How To Read My Boyfriend’s Text Messages

A few years ago I was involved in a relationship with an unfaithful partner.  At the beginning everything was great, we were almost inseparable.  But after only a few months everything changed. It seemed like it all happened at once, he started blowing off our date nights.  He would randomly stop responding to my texts for hours at a time.  He even began to screen my calls at certain times of the day.  Of course he blamed it all on work, saying he was working overtime or that he was in a meeting all day long.  The worst part was, at first, I believed him.  But as this behavior started to occur more frequently, I knew something was up.

How To Catch A Cheater

If you think your partner is cheating on you, their cell phone is the first place you should look

If you think your partner is cheating on you, their cell phone is the first place you should look

The only problem was, I didn’t have any proof that he was cheating on me.  I even went so far as to look through his phone to try and catch him in the act.  Each time I tried this I turned up with nothing. It wasn’t until I typed “how to read my boyfriend’s text messages” into google that I finally figured out a way to catch him.  I found this blog that showed me how to monitor everything my boyfriend was doing on his cell phone, from my very own devices!  No more sneaking around trying to search through his phone while he wasn’t looking.  I downloaded this app the first chance I got, and within a week I had all the evidence I would ever need to break up with him.

Everything from text messages, calls and emails from the other woman appeared on my phone. Messages that I’m sure would have been deleted way before the next time we saw each other.  All thanks to the simple “how to read my boyfriend’s text messages” google search, I was now free of my unfaithful boyfriend.